Who is your source for the information (that you are not “good enough”)?
Are they a credible source?
Definition of Credible:
: able to be believed : reasonable to trust or believe
: good enough to be effective
Credible. (n.d.). Retrieved June 15, 2014, from http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/credible
What is their motive for telling you this?
Are they trying to take advantage of you?
Are they trying to sell you something?
Are they using you for their own motive?
Why do you believe this information (that you are not “good enough”)?
How many other items of information are they accurate about?
How “successful” are their lives?
Are they happy?
Are they loved (by [...]