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Solutions...with Courtney Anderson! (SwCA)
Episode 201 -
Originally aired 9/30/2014 9:00 AM -
SATISFACTION SATURATION™ series -
“Everyone Tells Me What I Want To Hear. How Can I Get Honest Feedback?"
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TALK SHOW EPISODE NOTESYou did it! You climbed that mountain (literally and/ or figuratively) and you are now resting at the summit. Breathe in that sweet air of accomplishment! Very nice. Okay, you take it all in (the view from here, the beauty, the joy of surpassing your goals, etc.). Feels awesome. Wait, are you starting to feel a bit bored? What are you going to do next? You could do nothing. You have already proven yourself and achieved many things in life. Why aren’t you simply resting on your laurels? What is the itch, the craving for the next part? It is SATISFACTION SATURATION™ and you are experiencing it.
You have “been there, done that and have the t-shirt.” You do not want anymore of this mountain. It has reached a point of saturation (as per the Merriam-Webster dictionary definition, “the act or result of supplying so much of something that no more is wanted”). You are craving a new mountain to climb. This series, “SATISFACTION SATURATION™”, is for you. We will address the challenges in reaching the SATISFACTION SATURATION state in regards to specific experiences, how to recognize it, how to treat it, how to prevent it, and how to handle the feedback from other people (“Must be nice to have that job, that house, that car, that award,” etc.). This specific episode is, “Everyone Tells Me What I Want To Hear. How Can I Get Honest Feedback?” In this show we discuss A Stone* of Solutions™ including: 1) This is awesome, right? 2) Why do they tell you what you want to hear? 3) How do they know what you want to hear? 4) Is what they think you want to hear what you actually want to hear? 5) Why did you teach them to do this? 6) Why do you choose to continue to teach them to do this? 7) What are you frightened of if you heard the truth? 8) What tools do you use to entice people to lie to you? 9) Why does it feel so good to be lied to (even when we know its a lie)? 10) Why being catered to, and deferred to, hurts your ability to improve your life. 11) Why you surround yourself with “yes-men, yes-women, yes-employees, yes-friends and yes-relatives” is a negative reflection on you (and not them). 12) It is easier to be told what you want to hear but not efficient. 13) How to find someone capable of delivering it (honest feedback). 14) Do you need to change? BONUS: Do you really want honest feedback at all? *A stone is unit of measure equaling 14 pounds (so we have 14 elements in our one stone of solutions!). |
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